DEAR WIVES// A IT HUAI ZITE

 DEAR WIVES// A IT HUAI ZITE AW

1. If you want your husband to make love to you often, have a good attitude. No matter how sexy you look or dress, your husband will not find you attractive if you have a bad attitude.

#Na_pasal or ka pasal in hong it hong kin mahmah ei na cih nopleh Ama tungah na hoih sem den in. Na mel hoih in na etlawm mahmah aa, nisim na kizen den a sexy mahmah in na omta zongin na nuntakna gamtatna in amah na khual kei leh na pasalin cimtak huai hongsa ding suaisong muh hong mulo ding hi! 

2. If you want your husband to be eating with you, be pleasant to be around. No matter how tasty your No matter food, it loses taste when being around you is stressful. 

#NA_lawmpa Nang tawh an nekhawm den ding na ut leh a lungnop huai dingin ama kiangah naih kifriendship det ding kisam hi. Tua hileh meh limmaw limlo himasa lo hi. An lim mahmahta leh ih kiang ah lungzinnhuai in a kiomleh ankam lem tuan lo hi. 

3. If you want your husband to be opening up to you sensitive and difficult information, learn to keep secrets and not to overreact. A man refrains from sharing too much when he is scared information will be leaked or be misinterpreted. 

#Na pasal na haksatna leh na ngaihsutnate hong kin ding na deih leh thusim neithei inla kiphatsakna leh kiliatsakna tawh paukha semkha kei in! Thu sim a kizelt ding lau mahmah hi.

4. If you want your husband to be taking you out often, stop bringing drama and ruining dates with issues that should be dealt with at home. No man wants to go spend time and money at a venue where he will be emotionally drained.

#Na pasa in hong vakkhiatpih ding na deih leh a beisa thusiate na lui kikkik loh ding thupi hi. Pasalte in ahun leh asum ngaihsutna hong ninsak siasakte tawh zatkhop ding pammaihsa hi. 

5. If you want your husband to solve the issues in your marriage, stop seeing yourself as the angel and him the devil, stop attacking him or labelling him as "The agent the devil is using to in your marriage". See also your fault, show him you are on the same team and seek solutions, not finger pointing. 

#Nupa kalah hatsatna tuamtuamte na lawmpa in a vengsak ding na ut leh Nang Angel vantungmi dan in na kingaihsutna leh Amah Dawi danin na muhnate tawpsan in. Amah na thusimlohna leh na mawhsaknate cinawn kei in. Nang khialhnate zong kiphawkin la Pumkhat na hihna uh phawksak inla Nang kei ci aa kikawknate kimawhsaknate beisak in, pumkhat hihna kilangsak in. 

6. If you want your husband to come home early, be peaceful. The wife tends to own the home and so can easily make the husband keep off if she becomes harsh, uninviting and combative. 

#Na pasal in Inn nuam asak theihna ding inn ciah alawpna dingin nunnem in. Numeite inn ah aw khauh in ihih lala leh pasalte in Inn nuamsa hetlo hi cih phawkin Inn nuam asaklohna dingin a bawlbawl na hi hi. 

7. If you want your husband to be chatting with you and calling you up, be fun to talk to, make him miss you. If each time he calls you or chats you up it ends up with you starting a fight, reminding him of his wrongs or ordering him around he will avoid communication with you. 

#Na lawmpa in hong massage pahpah in hong hopih pahpah ding na ut leh nuam asak dingin kampau thei in, nuihna ding a kipan kamkhumin kam siam kei leh zong kamkha bek zang kei in itna mah gengen in! Na kihoi or message uh ciangin itna mah gen inla kiho autlohna dingin taina hawmthawhna lam atuamtuamte zang kei inla na ngaihna itna mah gen hamtang zaw in! 

8. If you want your husband to receive your suggestions and corrections then speak to him with a tone of love. If you come at him shouting, dictating at him or  he will harden up. 

#Napasal in na hilhna achianpiakna hong zui ding na deih leh itna kam tawh hopihin gen in, Tuadan hilo in awtkhum kamkhauhin, thuneihna tawh gen, pilvang leh aw khum na zat kei leh na upmawh sang hong haksa zaw semsem thei hi. 

9. If you want your husband to enjoy kissing you, then speak loving words, be gentle, be easy to talk to. Lips that speak words that hurt are not attractive to kiss. 

#Napasal in hong nap ding, kiss ding, hong pom ding, itna hong lak ding na ut leh itna kammalte zangin Magic word kammalte lungdam cihte a kipan kiniamkhiat in kihong mahmah den in. Kampau khauhna in ki-itna pianglo, kikissna kipomna piangsak lo hi. 

10. If you want your husband to do more sweet, romantic and special things; appreciate the little he does and he will do more. Complaining never inspires a man to do better but appreciation does. 

#Na pasalin thu hoih thupha tampi hong bawl ding na ut aa, nupa kalah ki-itna tawh sepsak bawlsak ding na ut leh na neuno khat hong sepsak pen Lungdamko, phat, pahtawi lecin na hoih tampi hong sep saksak ding hi. Complain kammal hoih keilua, deih keng, sialua, cihdan kammalte in pasalte na hoih sepding lawpsaklo aa, ahih hangin Lungdam kikohna, kamkhumna, kipahtawina, kizahtaknate in na hoih sepding lawpsak hi. 

May the lord bless your marriage  

TOPA in na NUPA kal uh hong nuamsak ciat hen! 

Lungdam