50 FACTS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND YOU SHOULD KNOW

 50 FACTS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND YOU SHOULD KNOW.

1.       Your hubby is not perfect, accept him.

2.       Your hubby is the bone of your bone, don't reject him.

3.       Your hubby is a special gift from God, appreciate him.

4.       Your hubby is not your mate, respect him. 

5.       Your hubby made you a wife, don't make him regret his choice of you.

6.       Your hubby is your backbone, nourish him.

7.       Your hubby still loves his Mummy , take note.

8.       Your hubby is sexually active, don't deny him sex.

9.       Your hubby loves good food, give it to him.

10.   Your hubby need your encouragement, don't be judgemental.

11.   Your hubby is not your enemy, believe him.

12.   Your hubby is a friend, hug him.

13.   Your hubby love peaceful atmosphere, create it.

14.   Your hubby is a male gender, allow him some ego.

15.   Your hubby is your hero , celebrate him.

16.   Your hubby is your head, don't over burden him .

17.   Your hubby wants to satisfy you, help him to reach the goal.

18.   Your hubby is your king, adore him.

19.   Your hubby is not a machine, give him a break.

20.   Your hubby is trying his best , don’t compare him with his friends.

21.   Your hubby is not a dustbin, don't pour all your worries on him.

22.   Your hubby is not a rapist , sometimes seduce him.

23.   Your hubby is not ATM machine, sometimes he may not have money.

24.   Your hubby is all you have, keep him safe.

25.   Your hubby is your validation , be proud of him. 

26.   Your hubby is your greatest asset, don't devalue him.

27.   Your hubby is the husband of your youth, stick to him. 

28.   Your hubby needs your honor, never embarrass him in the public.

29.   Your hubby is not a politician, trust him.

30.   Your hubby is a distinct personality, never compare him to anyone.

31.   Your hubby is faithful , don’t be suspicious of him.

32.   Your hubby is not your boss , be free with him.

33.   Your hubby can make mistakes, don't capitalize on it.

34.   Your hubby sometimes need a space, don't feel he no longer loves you.

35.   Your hubby is a good man, don't abuse or take him for granted.

36.   Your hubby trust you, don't lie to him. 

37.   Your hubby wants freedom, don't cage him.

38.   Your hubby can be easily provoked, don't provoke him easily. 

39.   Your hubby may not meet all your needs, however, never report him to your family people.

40.   Your hubby is prone to temptation, guard him. 

41.   Your hubby is not a fool, do not under - rate him.

42.   Your hubby is your responsibility, make sure he looks presentable.

43.   Your hubby is your first baby, breastfeed him always.

44.   Your hubby is number one in your life, priorities him 

45.   Your hubby is your treasure, centre your heart on him. 

46.   Your hubby needs your help, your are his help meet.

47.   Your hubby need your full attention, drop your phone whenever you are together. 

48.   Your hubby is your lord, summit to his authority.

49.   Your hubby is your first pastor,  take counsel from him.

50.   You will account to God about your husband , how you handle him and how you supported him. God bless you all humble and supportive wives !

John Liney 

MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND IT'S ALSO A GIVE AND TAKE

 MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND IT'S ALSO A GIVE AND TAKE

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband

2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband

3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances

4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend

6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood

7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband

8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him

9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time

11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids

12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments

13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband

14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband

16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty

17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her

18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together

Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.

Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN HOME WELL 

REMAIN BLESSED, GOD BLESS YOU

HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING

 WHAT YOU SHOULD DO DURING A MISUNDERSTANDING TO AVOID IT FROM GETTING OUT OF HAND.

Misunderstanding is something you can never do without in a relationship/marriage, misunderstandings would come to either make your relationship weaker or stronger, you can make your relationship strive no matter the misunderstanding that comes your way if you know how to handle them when they come.

Most people who do not know how to handle misunderstandings in their relationship/marriages have become victims of divorce and heart breaks. If you can master how to handle misunderstandings when they come, be rest assured that you're going to enjoy a beautiful relationship.

HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING

📌LISTEN:  The first thing to do during a misunderstanding is not shouting back at your spouse, the first thing to do is to listen to what they are saying and try to understand where they are coming from, even when they are screaming on top of their voices, relax, be calm and listen.

📌DON'T RETALIATE: It is often said that two wrongs cannot make a right, so when they are shouting at you don't retaliate, just keep your cool. This will give you time to study your partner's emotions and also hear them clearly. 

📌DON'T USE HARSH WORDS: During a misunderstanding and you are trying to explain what happened be mindful of your words and don't say anything that would make the situation worse. Take time to explain with a language that's soft and low. 

📌SHUT THEM UP WITH LOVE: There are certain things you will do to your spouse that would keep them shut immediately, except if your spouse does not love you but if your spouse do love you, they will keep shut, call them pet names, tell them they don't look good when they are angry, hug them and tell them you love them, stare into their eyes and say they have beautiful eyes or beautiful lips, just say something sweet to them.

📌APOLOGIZE IF YOU'RE THE ONE AT FAULT: If you're at fault and you are sure you are, apologize and move on, holding onto issues without apologizing is not right. It will anoly cause a bigger rift between you and your partner. Accept your mistake, apologize and never get to doing your partner wrong again. Mean it when you say it. 

To some, mostly ego overtakes them and fails to handle a misunderstanding. Making room for silence to eat the relationship away. Try things differently this year and see the outcome.

FINDING A HUSBAND IS HARD

 FINDING A HUSBAND IS HARD.

1. You find a handsome one, the brain is empty.

2. You find a brilliant one. He looks too serious.

3. You find a rich one, he is disrespectful.

4. You find a hard-working one, he never has time for you.

5. You find a serious one, his EX keeps calling.

6. You find a humble one, he is broke.

7. You find a responsible one, he is not romantic.

8. You find an educated one, he feels he is always right.

9. You find an illiterate one, he always gets angry whenever you correct him.

10. You find a smart one, he lies every time.

AVOID THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIPS

 AVOID THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIPS

#Advise

1. You should avoid a relationship that is based on sex alone.

It has no future. If all you do is to sleep with each other

instead of discussing things that will benefit your life then that

relationship is a waste of time and destiny.

2. Avoid any relationship that has no direction, purpose or aim.

3. Avoid any relationship that doesn't add any positive impact

on your life.

4. Run away from any relationship that gives you more sorrows

than joy.

5. Run away from any relationship that makes you cry or gives

you more tears and cry than laughter.

6. Do not stay in a relationship where you love someone but

the person makes you unhappy many times.

7. When you see signs that a relationship can't work, there is

no need remaining into it. Flee from it. Don't keep managing.

8. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to

love your partner.

9. Avoid any relationship where you are caged or restricted

from your rights. No relationship should restrict you from your

rights.

10. Avoid any relationship that will keep you far away from

God.

SEXUALLY UNDERSTANDING YOUR SPOUSE

 SEXUALLY UNDERSTANDING YOUR SPOUSE...

1. There are some women who climax once in a love making session, others climax multiple times. Find out which one is your wife.

2. There are some men who enjoy when their balls are played with, others find it ticklish and uncomfortable. Find out which one is your husband. 

3. There are some women who get turned on when you blow into or kiss their ears, others find it intrusive and ticklish. Find out which is your wife.

4. There are people who love it when spoken to dirty, there are some who find it demeaning. Find out which one is your spouse. 

5. There are people who have to shower first before making love, others are good to go anytime. Find out which one is your spouse.

6. There are some women who love it when they are spanked, some feel objectified. Find out which one is your wife

7. There are some men who go a second round after climax, for some, one round is enough. Find out which one is your husband.

8. There are women whose nipples are extremely sexual and sensitive, others even if you play with them they feel nothing. Find out which one is your wife.

9. There are men whose nipples long to be touched, some feel nothing there. Find out which one is your husband.

10. There are people who love to tongue kiss and have their tongues wrestle with their spouse, others find this too much. Find out which one is your spouse.

11. There are people who love games, such as being tied to the bed and made love to, being poured on cream to lick from their body, being grabbed forcefully when making love, others don't. Find out which one is your spouse.

12. There are some women who love being licked on their clitoris, some find it filthy and unnatural. Find out which one is your wife.

13. There are some men who get a kick out of their penis being sucked, they can even climax through it, others don't. Find out which one is your husband.

14. There are some who have sexually sensitive inner thighs, navels and the sides of their torso are sexual spots, others are different. Find out which one is your wife.

15. There are some men who are turned on by boobs, others by butts, some are turned on by both. Find out which one is your husband.

Knowing more about your spouse will help you meet your spouse's sexual needs.