INTERNET PAN LIM HOIH LO ET ZONGSATNA ( ADDICTION TO INTERNET PORN )
By Rev.Khual Lam Cin Mang
General Secretary, TVBA
THU MASA: Pornography ( a tomin Porn kici hi ) a khiatna bang hiam? Oxford English Dictionary in: Pictures, writings, or films that are intended to arouse sexual excitement, ci-in na gen hi. Tua ahih manin “ PORN / PORNOGRAPHY i cih ciangin nulepa omkhopna vai ah huukna leh lanna lust ) a khangsak lim, laigelh-thugelh ahih kei leh limcinte a genna ahi hi. Khantohna tawh kizui-in a neu a lianin i phone-te panin internet tawh kizangkhawm pahpah ahih manin internet panin porn en tam mahmah hi. Tua ahih manin tu-a kipanin Zokam tawh gengen nawn loin Mikang kam ‘ porn / internet porn’ cih kong zang ziau ding hi.
Khristiante adingin internet porn a hoih lohna i gen ding uhi. Lai Siangtho in deih het lo ahihna zong i gen nuam hi. I galpa Satan in hih internet porn zangin Khristiante sungah mun hong la mahmah, innteek tang mahmahta ahih manin i kidop ding thupi mahmah hi. A neu a lian in smart phone i tawi kim theih-a kipatin khangnote bek hiloin pastorte zong peng lo, upate zong peng lo, gam khangtote bangah numeite nangawn porn et zongsangta ( addicted ) uhi. Satan in tulaitakin a zat a galvan hoih mahmah internet porn ahi hi. Hih porn a hoih lohna thu tam lo kikumsukin internet porn et zongsatna pan suahtak sawm ciat ni.
INTERNET PORN ZONGSANG TAM MAHMAH HI: Covenant Eyes in a kankhiatna ah hi bangin mukhia hi:
( i ) Setkan ( second ) khat simin mihing 28,258 te in internet porn en uhi.
( ii ) Setkan khat simin internet panin porn et nading sum US $ 3,075.64/ kizang bei hi.
( iii ) Porn limcin ( films ) 88% pen pumpi kigawtbawlna kimu thei-in, 49% pen kam tawh kikobawlna pian vive zang uhi.
( iv ) Porn limcing ( porn performers ) 75% te in kanza khamtheih ( marijuana ) zang uha, 50% te in lungsim thathosak khamtheih zatang ( ecstasy ) zang uhi.
( v ) Mobile phone 5 teh 1 in internet ah porn tawh kisai website zong uhi.
( vi ) Youth pastor 5 teh 1 leh Senior pastor 7 teh 1 in pongmanin ( regular basis ) internet porn en den uhi.
( vii ) Senior pastor leh youth pastor 43% te in a beisa hunin internet porn tawh ka na buai ngei hi, ci uhi.
( viii ) Khristian kici pasal 64% te leh Khristian kici numei 15% te in kha khat teh khat vei porn ka en hamtang uhi, ci-in gen uhi.
( ix ) Pawlpi 7% bek in porn tawh a buaite hot khiat nading nasep ( ministry program ) sem bek uhi.
( x ) A tangpi ( average ) in pasalte kum 12 panin porn et kipan uhi.
( xi ) Khangmoi ( kum 13-19 kikaalte ) 71% te in online ah a et uh website-te a nu leh pate uh theisak loin phiat sim den uhi.
( xii ) Keylogger Review in a ciamtehna ah nisimin internet pan naupang porn ( child pornography ) a zong mihing 116,000 val bang pha den hi, ci hi. Nunglam deuha Kawlgama thupiang, tuni ciang dong a kibuaipih lai Victoria vai bang zong a dahhuaipi khat ahi hi.
2. LAI SIANGTHO IN PORN TAWH KISAI-IN BANGCI GEN HIAM?
Internet panin a kizong tam pen porn tawh kisai website te ahi hi. Tulaitakin a hoih het lo internet porn in leitung buppi ah kizelin natna dam thei lo bangin a zongsangte tawp pak, khawl pak thei nawn lo uhi. Satan in hih internet porn zangin lawhcing kisa mahmah hi. Hih internet porn hangin nupa kaal a kisia tampi om hi. Huukna leh lanna ( lust ) khangsak ahih manin kibuan ( rape ) zong pungsak tuam mahmah hi. Angkawmna ( adultery ) tamsak tuam hi. Hih internet porn in nulenu palepa kilunggulhna leh omkhopna ( homosexuality ) piangsakin, khangsak hi, kici hi.
Lai Siangtho in mawhna lianin a ciapteh thumte in: Cilesa kilunggulhna ( the lust of the flesh ), mit tawh kilunggulhna ( the lust of the eyes ) leh kiphatsakna ( the pride of life ), ( 1 Johan 2:16 ) cih teng ahi hi. Internet porn in cilesa kilunggulhna leh mit tawh kilunggulhna piangsak hi.
Filippi 4:8 ah - Sanggamte aw, a tawpna-ah ka hong gennop thu in, a hoih le a phattaak thute tawh na lungsim uh na kidimsak un. Tuate in: A man, a dik, a tang, a siangtho, a deihhuai, le a pahtakhuai thute ahi hi, ci-in na gen hi. Tua ahih manin internet porn in i lungsim pen hih thute tawh kidimsak het lo ding ahih manin internet porn pen Pasian in deih het lo pah hi.
Internet porn a hoih lohna Lai Siangtho in zong hih bangin na gen hi.
( i ) Mawhna-in na ciamteh pah hi. Internet porn in midang tawh mawhpih nopna lungsim piangsak ahih manin mawhna hi pah hi. Matthai 5:28 ah- Ahi zongin ke’n kong genin-ah: Mawhpih nopna lungsim tawh numei khat a en mi peuhmah in a lungsimah tua numei tawh a mawh ahi hi.
( ii ) Internet porn’ sila kisuak thei hi. I zongsat khat peuhpeuh pen tua i zongsat ii sila cihna hi. 1 Korin 6:13 ah “Ka ut peuhpeuh ka hih theih nading thu om hi,” a ci omkha ding hi. Ahi zongin na khempeuh hih ding kilawm lo hi. Kei zong ka ut khempeuh ka hih theih hangin tua bang gamtatna khat peuhpeuh’ sila ka suak nuam kei hi. 2 Peter 2:19 ah .... Bang hang hiam cih leh mite pen, a hong zo peuhpeuhte’ sila ihi hi.
( iiii ) Internet porn in siatna ( destruction ) piangsak hi. Paunak 6:25-28 ah 25 Amau’ melhoihna iplahkha kei inla, amau’ hong zawlmitna khenglahkha kei in. 26 Bang hang hiam cih leh anlum khat tawh numei paktat khat kingahzo a, ahi zongin numei tawh mawhna in nuntakna bup siasak hi. 27 Na ang sungah meikuang pom lecin na puan kang loin om ding ahi hiam? 28 Mei-am tungtawnin pai lecin na khe kang loin om ding ahi hiam?
3. KOICI BANGIN INTERNET PORN ZONGSATNA PAN SUAKTA DING? Internet porn zongsatna pen khamtheih zatui ( drugs ) zongsatna tawh kibanga a zongsangte nisimin internet porn en loin om thei nawn lo uhi, ci-in mipilte ( experts ) in gen uhi. Tua banga zongsatna in Khristiante adingin i kha nuntakna susia bek hi loin i pumpi leh i lungsim mahmah in zong thuaklawh ( side effects ) hi. Internet porn zongsatna hangin pumpi leh lungsim in a thuaklawh thute ( side effects ):
( i ) Kisuanna lungsim nei den uhi.
( ii ) Amau leh amau kimawhsakna ( guilty ) nei den uhi.
( iii ) Hawmkisakna ( emptiness ), khattang kisakna ( loneliness ) leh lungkiat nate ( depression ) nei uhi.
( iii ) Mi lakah om nuam kholloin tuam om den nuam uhi.
( iv ) Nupa kikhenna ( divorce ) piangsak hi.
( v ) Ihmut kham ngei lo uhi.
( vi ) Kibuanna ( rape ) piangsak hi.
( vii ) Ki-it kingaihna om lopi-in omkhopna ( sex ) piangsak hi.
Tua ahih manin internet porn in hoihna khat zong a piansak om lo ahih manin a zongsangte in tawpsan ding loh ngal thudang om lo hi. Pasian in zong deih lo ahih manin hih zongsatna pen nutsiat ding, taihsat ding, zatkikel nawn lo ding mawhna lian khat ahi hi.
( i ) Hih internet porn zongsatna panin suahtak nadingin pianthak ( Jesuh sungah mithak suahna ) bek in hong gualzosak ding hi. Jesuh tawh mantaka kizopna bekin in hong gualzosak ding hi. Johan 15:5 ah “Kei pen leenggui ka hi a, note pen a hiang na hi uh hi. Note in kei tawh loin bangmah hih thei lo ding na hih manun kei tawh a kizomte in gah tampi na gah ding uh hi.
( ii ) A piangthak khat na hih nak leh Kha Siangtho in hong gualzawhpi ding hi. Efesa 3:16 - note’ lungsim a thahat nadingin Pasian in a kicing ama vangliatna sung panin a Kha Siangtho tawh note hong thakhauh sakin,
( iii ) Pasian tungah i lungsim i pumpi apin kipumpiak ding leh i kipuahphatsak ding ahi hi. ( Roman 12:1-4 ; 1 Tua sahih ciangin sanggamte aw, Pasian in eite tam veipi tak hong hehpih ahih manin ama lungkim nading le ama nasep nadingin nomau mahmah a hingtangin Pasian tungah na kipiak nadingun ka hong thum hi. Tua banga kipiakna pen Pasian biakna man taktak ahi hi. 2 Leitung mihingte’ gamtat bangin gamta kei unla, na lungsim uh kikheelin Pasian kipuahphasak un. Tua hileh a hoih nate bang hi a, bangte in amah lungkimsakin, bangte a kicing hiam ci-in thei-in Pasian’ deihna na phawk thei ding uh hi. )
( iv )Topa tungah i lungsim ngaihsutna leh i mitte mahmah ap ding ahi hi. ( 1 Johan 2:16 - Bang hang hiam cih leh pumpi deihna, mit tawh mu-in i deihte, le mite’ kisaktheihpih nate ahi leitung nate khempeuh pen Pa Pasian tawh a kizom thu hi lo a, leitung tawh a kizom thu ahi hi. )
( v ) Hih internet porn zongsatna hoih lo na zawh nadingin Pasian kiang panin thahatna ngen in. ( Filippi 4:13 - Khrih in a hong piak vangliatna tawh hihte khempeuh nawkzawh nading thahatna a nei ka hi hi. )
( vi ) Lim hoih lo tuamtuam et nopna ze-etna panin Topa’n hong kep nadingin thu ngen in ( 1 Korin 10:13 - Na tuah uh ze-etnate khempeuh pen mite’ tuah ngeingeite mah ahi hi. Pasian in citakin a thuciamna lenkip ahih manin note’ thuak zawh loh ding ze-etna hong tuaksak lo ding hi. Ze-etna na tuah hun uh ciangin zong na thuakzawh nading uh thahatna hong guan ding ahih manin na suahtak zawh nading uh lampi hong honsak ding hi. )
( vii ) Na ngaihsutna na lungsim ah Pasian mun pia inla, Pasian lungkim nadingin gamta in ( Filippi 8:4 - Sanggamte aw, a tawpna-ah ka hong gennop thu in, a hoih le a phattaak thute tawh na lungsim uh na kidimsak un. Tuate in: A man, a dik, a tang, a siangtho, a deihhuai, le a pahtakhuai thute ahi hi. )
Hih internet porn thu i gen ciangin nu leh pa pawlkhat in thupi ngaihsut khollo kha mai thei ding hi. Ahi zongin i upmawh sangin khangno tampitak buai uhi, Khristian kici mi tampitak buai uhi. Pasian nasem kici pawlkhat zong buai uhi, ci-in mipilte in mukhia uhi. Na upmawh loh pipi hih ze-etna sungah na buai mahmah ( struggling ) uhi, ci-in gen uhi. Tua ahih manin nuleh pate in zong i tate in a phone koici zat uh hiam? cih a kanhuai thu khat ahi hi. Khristiante pen Pasian in lungsim pumpi a siangtho sinsen dingin hong sapte ihih manin hih internet porn tawh kisawhkhak loh limlim ding thupi hi. A zongsangkhinsate in zong i tawpsan ding ahi hi.
