Saturday, February 24, 2024

ZBC A KITAPKHAPNA THU



ZBC A KITAPNA THU Ngawnte Thuthang

ZBC tu ih CBC kuai thoknak thu tawite:

#ZBC pan CBC aa pianna thu tom no: 


ZBC dinh a si hlan ah Mirang Siangbawi misionary pawl ih hohanak thawn Chinram khrihfa ke kan kar.

1948 kum Falam Peng, Satawm Civui ihsin Mizo(Lusei)ram ihsin a ra lut mi " Hlim hlaamnak" ruangah Hakha- Falam-Tedim ti in ṭhendarhnak a um hmaisabik dah. 

#1948 kum Falam pan Satawm civui pan Mizo gam pan hong lutte hangin Hakha-Falam-Tedim cih kikhenna om masa hi. 


Cuihnu ah Mirang Siangbawi pawl Burma ramsung ihsin an thlun hlanah Chin mipawl an mah te Biakin / Pawlkom hmin pawl an rak phuah ter.


Cutikah Thantlang Peng Saikah khua  Civui ihsin Mirang Siangbawi Nelson pawl  hnih Pawlkom hmin an hril ter.


Rev. Hau Go in ZBC(Zomi) tin hmang sehla tin an ti.Cun Saya Lun Cung Nung in " Khrih Kawhhran or Chin " tin hmang sehla a ṭi.Cutikah Vote an khai ih (Z) hmang dingin 1953 kum an lungkim. 

#Rev.Hau Go in ZBC Zomi ci-in zangni ci. Tua lai takin Sia Lun Cung Nung in Khrih pawlpi or Chin cini si in gen. Tua thu 2 vote kikhia in Zomi zat dingin 1953 kum in lungkim uh hi. 

Cuih ZBC Hlan lai kaihhruai awknak ah ZBC(CBC) kha Falam-Hakha-

Tedim ect ti in mah le GS ṭuan can in an feh.

#ZBC kimakaihna ah ZBC pen Falam-Hakha-Tedim ci-in GS kisemsak in kitel omlo in kikalsuan hi. 


Cumi rori cu 1995 ZBC Tedim Peng,Siyin Region khuasak khua General election dingah Tedim Unau pawlih GS ṭuan can ding a si.

#Tua bangin kikalsuan lai-in 1995 ZBC Tedim gam Sihzang gam khuasak khua ah Tedim unaute GS sepding hun ah General election hong om. 


Cuih an ṭuancan ding tikah Hakha Dr.Chum Awi le Falam Rev.Sui Lian te pa hnih in Election an tuah ding ni zan ah Hakha le Falam EC palai pawl hnenah zamvar an thup ten an vaak ih ဘာသာရေးနိုင်ငံရေးan tuah. Rev.Sui Lian(Falam)cu Dr.Chum Awi ih sawmmi a si. ZBC Upa a ṭuan duh ve a si tikah Dr.Chum Awi ih a dik lo zetin, Politics a play nak sungah a rak tel ve ngah.

#Tua bangin asep ding hun uh ah Hakha Dr.Chum Awi leh Falam Rev. Sui Liante mi nih in Election ahih ding ci-in zan ah Hakha leh Falam ECte kiang ah a gukin zatha pai in vakin Biakna sungah Politics hong sem uh hi. Rev. Sui Lian Falam pen Dr. Chum Awi hakha in zawn hi. ZBC Upa asepnop manin Dr. Chum Awi in a manlo pi-in Politic hong kimawlin hong kihel hi. 


Cutikah a thaizing Election pi ah Tedim Unau pawlih GS rak ṭuan ding can rori kha a sinan! Cuih Dr.Chum Awi ih hohanak in Rev.Sui Lian te pahnih cun Nai-nganzii- thuṭha lo an tuah  ruangah Tedim Unau a simi Rev.Gen Khan Khual cu GS a ngah nawn lo. 

#Tua leh Unau Tedimte GS na asem ding hun hina pi in, Dr. Chum Awi bawlsiatna hangin leh Rev. Sui Liante hangin politic hoihlo hong puaklutna hangin Tedim Unau ahi Rev. Gin Khan Khual in GS hong ngah nawnlo hi. Tedim lamte GS sep ding ciangin phallo uh a mee kitel ding hong vai hawm uh ahi uh hi. Nidangin kitelna om ngeilo hi GS vai ah! 


A bikin Hakha Unau pawl in an mah GS tuan an duh ih Falam kan sawm  lo cun kan neh lo ding ti an theih ruangah Falam ih um Pu Pek Thang an sawm ih a nih in AGS dingah Rev. T Sui Lian khi AGS dingah kan ret a tul.Pu Pek Thang cu Lai-Hakha lam mi a si tikah el lo in a cohlang cih ve. 

#Hakha unaute in GS a sepnop manin Falam lamte zol in Falamte zo kei leng lemlo ding ci-in Falam a Pu. Pek Thang zawnin Rev. T Sui Lian AGS koih kul ding kici uh hi. Pu Pek Thang Laimi Hakha ahih manin niallo in na mang hi. 


Culawngah Tedim pawl kan neh thei men ding an ti ih Pu Pek Thang in Falam a sizung ih cun Rev.Sui Lian in AGS a duh ve ruangah cuti an rak cang vai kha an si. 

#Tua leh hidan hileh Tedim lamte zo ding hihang ci in, Pu Pek Thang in Falam lamte sizung in Rev. Sui Lian in AGS a sepnop manin hih bangin thu hoihlo in na gamta uh hi. 


Cun Rev. Tial Dum khal in a lung kim pi. Cuticun Falam mi a hrek ai ih tam in Hakha pawl an bawm ruangah thil feh dan ding pawl cangsual le vaivuannak ṭheh in rualrem ten a feh rero lai mi ZBC khal sungah ṭhentheknak pawl hram a thok cih.

#Tua leh Rev. Tial Dum in zong a gelna uh lungkim pih hi. Tua hangin Falam a tamzawte in Hakhate pawlpih in ZBC hoih takin a kalsuan lai pen hong kitheih zak mang hi. 


Cun Falam ihsin Rev.Than Kim(Saimun) ZBC ih စိုက် ပျိုးရေး lam tavuankhaan ih an nominate cia zo mi khal ngah nawn lo in a tlacih ve.

#Tua leh Falam pan Rev. Than Kim (Saimun) ZBC i Saihpiuzy lam tavuan nei pan nominate sate zong kizang thei nawnlo hi.?


Cuih ni rori ah Rev.Gin Khan Khual ih hoha mi Tedim kawhhran tampi cu ZBC ihsin an suak cih rori.

#Tuni a kipan in Rev. Gin Khan Khual tawh a mi Tedimte Pawlpi tampi ZBC pan in pusuak uh hi. 


Cumi cu ZBC ihsin Hakha Dr.Chum Awi le Falam Rev.Sui Lian te ih Nainganzii that lo nak ruangih ZBC khuai thoknak hram cu a si.

#Ahang pen ZBC sungah Hakha Dr. Chum Awi leh Falam Rev. Sui Liante in Naingangy kimawlna hangin ZBC kitapkhapna tua hang ahi hi. 


Cuhnu ah a tang hrih mi Tedim Unau hrekkhat pawl cu " Convention" an dil ih cuih a dil tikah ZBC pi cun  kum(3)sung ṭhenhla ṭhenkhat maanzet in ZBC pi hnen ah  pek uh .

Cuhnu ah nan ding thei tin an ti ih kum(3) sung ṭhenhla ṭhenkhat maanzet in  an pek hnu ah Thantlang ZBC khawmpi ihsin a vei(2)nak Tedim Unau pawl cu ZBC ih siannak thawn" Tedim Baptist Convention" timi an rak ding.


Cumi ihsin 2012 kum Kalay Carson Civuai ihsin " ZBC ihsin CBC" thlengh ding thu nasa takin thu suahpinak a um.

#2012 #kum Kalay Carson Civui pan in meeting ah ZBC pan CBC a laih ding nakpi in kikum. 


Cutikah a tang hrih lai mi Tedim Unau pawl khal cu an suak bet lala ih cuih ihsin ZBC ihsin CBC tin hmin cun an rrak thleng ta riai.

#Tedim unaute a pusuak nailote hong pusuak leuleu uh a, tua ciangin ZBC pan CBC a lungtup uh hong tungta hi. 


Cuih ihsin TBC-ZBCM le CBC cu komawk thiam nawn lo in, tuni tiang Hakha-Falam- Tedim hivek in kan cang vivonak kha asi. 

#Tua a kipan in TBC-ZBCM leh CBC pen kizom nawnlo in tuni ciang Hakha Falam Tedim ci in kiding tek hi. 

Curuangah Chin sakhua biaknak lam kan zoh tik khalah Pathian thu hnakin Pengtlang  milai duhdan in feh kan tum sung hmuahhmuah cu kan Chinzo mi Unau ṭhenawk vivo ti kha a lang tuk.

#Pasian thu sangin Chin sungah biakna pen eideihdan in kalsuanna thupi sak in tua sung Chinzo mi unau kikhenkham ngingei hi. 

Hi vekin Thudik lo kha thudik ih tuahcop in thudik ah canhter duhnak Chin Christian Politics sia  le Ramkhel thu tuahnak pawl kha bang thlangh vivo dingin santhar Chin mino pawl cun kan zuam a ṭul. 

#Khangnote in hihbang thu hoihlo pen a thuhoih dan a kikhem bawl a, Chin Chritian Politic Sia leh kimawl lamkhialte hang ahihna khangnote in thudik theih ding kisam hi. 

Credit Ngawn thuthang https://www.facebook.com/share/PfKi6YuZX4oKBAQv/?mibextid=WC7FNe 

ZBC TANGTHU by: Rev. Khoi Lam Thang


 ZBC Tangthu 

By ~ Rev. Khoi Lam Thang 

1899 in Carsonte Zogam hong tung a, 1953 kum in ZBC piang hi. 1948 kum a piang HBA, FBA, leh TBA kigawm ZBC kici ahi hi. Hih bangin Association thum a pian ma in Zogam bup a om Baptist Pawlpi khempeuh "All Chin-Hills Baptist Association" kici hi. 1919-1938 ciang Cope topa vaihawm "Tedim Kam Thu kizakna lai" zong "Chin Hills News" kici hi.

1940 kiim India gam sanggamte in zong "Mizo" a kicih hun pawl a kipan in "Chin" sangin "Zo" tawh kiminlawh ding ngaihsutna hong laang hi. Rev ST Hau Go US pan hong ciah ciangin Zogam pawlpite dinmun sangmangte in hong puahphat nop hun tawh kituak a, HBA, FBA lah TBA teng kipawlna khat neih ding hong gel uh hi. Tua vaihawmna a tangtun na dingin ZBC hong piang hi. Mi pawlkhatte in Sia Hau Go makaih ahih manin "Zomi" min a pua hi ci in mawhsak uh hi. Hih hun lai pek a kipan in min thu bek hi lo a, sum thu leh a dangdang ah zong khat le khat kigimneihna kinopmawhna khaici kipanpan khin hi.

CCOC kipatma ciang:

Sangmang Johnson bangin zong "Chin" mah ci viuveu hi leh kilawm hi. ZBC makaihna nuai ah Lai Siangtho sang kiphuan a, Zomi Baptist Bible School kici pen a masa pen certificate piak ding ciangin (1959)alaidal tungah "Chin Baptist Bible School" ci in Johnson in gel hi. Rev Kam Khaw Thang in nasia tak in thalnial ngei hi.

Zomi te a phualphual ah biakna lam i kimakaihzia kibang lo hi. Falam gam Khalkha gam ah Pasian leh Pasian nasemte zahtakbawl in thupisim uh a, Tedim gam ah Pasian nasemte pen kithupisim khollo in maineu uh hi. Tua ahih amnin mipil misiam a khangmasasa in Pasian nasep ding sangin kumpi nasep ding sumzon ding hanciam zaw uh hi. I lawm dangte in Tan 10 ong, BA, B.Sc ngahte mah biakna lam ah na kipia uh a, Zogam ki makaihna ah dinmun kician hong nei hi. 1980 masiah ciangciang Tedim mi lak ah Tan 10 ong leh Graduate khin sa Lai Siangtho sang kah tawm mahmah a, a om sunsun ZBC, MBC, MCC dongah na kihel uh hi. Tedim mite in makai haksatna (Leadership crisis) phukha hi hang. Tua kawmkal ah TBA sung pan ZBA leh SRBA inntuan hi. Tuiphum pawlpi nusia in Thang Za Kam, EBC, AG, UPC … te piang hi. Hih bang a minam sung kitapzan ngiingei nate ah thudam leh thunamtui tawh kikhen liailiai na om khol hi. Thang Za Kam pawlpi tawh kikhen ding lai in ZBC pan a lemtuah ding hong pai makaite in "No Tedimte na haksatna uh pen Surgical method na zat luat man uh hi" hong ci kici hi. Nengno a na khat kheisuk ding a ling lakhia ding cih lungpuak nei hi hang.

CCOC pan 1995 ciang

1983 ciangin CCOC hong piang hi. CCOC min ngiat pen "Chin" min dinpihna khat in kimu hi. Ahih hangin Tedim lamte in nasia takin mapang a, CCOC ading in a simasa Cin Khaw Thawn Tedim mite mah ahi hi. Asi 7 lak ah 5 in Tedim mite hi. Piakkhiatna ah zong a hanciampente hi. Hih bang hun laitak in ZBC makaihna nuai ah sumzat zia, makaihzia a kipan thu tuamtuam ah Tedim mi makaite teltheihloh thu, mawhsakna, etkhialhna hong khang semsem hi.

Hih hun sung mah in ZBC structure et phat kikna ding nakpi tak in ZBC EC ciangah kikum den uh hi. Khalkha lamte in ZBC pan paikhiat ding hanciam ngei hi. ZBC mahmah MBC tawh kizom lo in BWA tawh kizop ding ciang makaite ngaihsutna thusim ah om ngei hi. Ni khat ni ciang kihen kul veve ding ahih ciangin "kampau-language" bulphuh a kikhen zaw ding maw "gam le lei-geography" bulphuh a kikhen zaw ding cih pen thulu lianpi hong suak a, a tawp ma ah ZBC Trienial in a khensat ding ciang tun uh hi. 1995 Khuasak thupiang Khuasak ah 1995 kum in ZBC Trienial tung a, tua sung ah ZBC pen khang tawntung kikhen lo ding cih vekpi lungkim in khensat uhhi. Tua thu khensatna khit ciangin "kitelna" om hi. ZBC GS dingin Rev. Dr. Chum Awi a ki norminate khinsa ahi hi. Tedim lamte ngaihsut na ah tutung pen ei Tedim lamte GS sep hun ahih manin GS post hong piak uh leh ZBC tawh kipawl lai ding, hong piak kei uh leh ZBC pan paikhia ding cih vaihawmna tawh England a sangkah kim lai Rev. Thawng Khan Cin kisam a, GS kidemsak hi. Kilel hi. (ZBC GS ding a kitel Rev. Dr Chum Awi in kum khat zong sem manlo in gamdangah hong zinsan a, KVBA GS ding a kitel Rev. Tuang Khan Kap in vaihaksapi sung GS sem hi.)GS a kingah loh ciangin Khuasak khua ZBC Trienial kikhoppi sung mah ah Tedim lam teng kituam kup pah uh a, ZBC pan paikhaitna ding vaihawm uh hi. Tuate sung ah TBA, TTBA, KZBA, TVBA, ZBA teng kihela, SRBA in a mau leitang tung a thu kivaihawm laitak ahih na hang tawh kikhen ding thu pompih zolo uh hi. ZBA te a sawt lo in ZBC mah ah kileh kik uh hi. TBA tangmite inn a tun kik uh ciangin mipi lungkim lo ahih manin a pai khiate lah pawm nawn lo, ZBC ah lah ciah kik lo in tangdin uh hi. A paikhia te in "ZBC sung sum leh paaizat na ah hong muang zo kei ung" cih siksan bulpi in nei uh hi.

Hih thu teng a pian ciangin ZBC in commission a dawldawl seh in haksatnate lem napi 1998 kumthum cin kik dong kigawm kik ding ciang tun zolo hi. A paikhia te in ZBCM min pua uh a, Kawlpi ah kiphual uh hi. ZBC tung ah inntuan nang thu dam tawh a nget uh hangin lawhcing lo hi. ZBC in a paikhia te kiang ah vok go in a khaam kawikawi hangin zong a phattuamna om nawn lo hi. Tua kawmkal ah Tedim mi sung (a diakdiak in TBA sung ah) 'C' leh 'M' thu hangin zum kong mang kong kitun, u leh nau ki nopmawh, sisan naisan luanna pianghi.

TBA in thudot (Patron) dingin a seh uh Rev. Dr. Pau Khan En, Rev. Dr Kam Khaw Thang, Rev. Dr. Do Sian Thang leh Rev. Smith Ngul Za Thawng te tawh kimuh na zong om zelzel hi. Tedim kampau sia khempeuhh kimuhkhopna zong kibawl hi. ZCLS makaihna tawh consultation zong kisam hi. Ahih hangin thudot te in "ZBC ah ciah kik ding" hi kinken a, ZBCM makaite in "Ciahkik lo ding mainawt ding" hi den hi. Tua bangin TTBA, TVBA, leh KZBA in ZBCM mintawh "ngal hapaksa tum kik kei" ci in mainawt suak uh hi. TBA tangdin gige hi. TBA sung pan in Mualbeem khawk te in TAB ci in Association thak kipan uh a 1999 Trienial ah ZBC tawh kizom uh hi.

1998 Trienial khit ZBC triennial in MBC ah hih thu haksa a puak toh dingin a kigen hangin EC leh ap kik hi. 1999 kum ciangin MBC tun pan uh hi. MBC GS pen Rev. Saw Mar Gay Gyi leh Rev. Simon Pau Khan En hong kilaih hun tawh kituak hi. Sia Enno makaihna tawh MBC thuhaksa lemtuah pawl in Khamtung gam ah hong kuan uh hi. ZBCM tawh bangmah vaihawm kha nawnlo uh hi. TBA bulphuh deuh uh ahih mah bangin TBA in zong "ZBCM pai ding lah lung kim khin zo kei ung. ZBC ciah kik ding lah lungkim khin zo kei ung, MBC nuai ah Baptist innkuan sun pan lah taikhia het kei nung" a cih ciangin MBC in TBA mailam ding ngaihsutsak hi.

MBC, TBA leh ZBC makaite kimu uh a, TBA mailam ding a gel na uh a (1) TBA pen Association 3 kisuah ding a, Convention in a din theih nang kithawi ding. (2) Tua hun sung ZBC ah kipawlna sum khia ding a, ZBC kum 50 cin zong bawl khawm ding. (3) ZBC in zong TBA mailam ding a hoih pen in vaihawmsak ding (4) hi bang laklawh hun sung MBC in TBA akisam bangin vaan ding cih ahi hi. Hih vaihawm na mah bangin MBC in TBC a van zawhzah in van hi. TBA zong Association thum kisuah a (1) Northern Tedim Baptist Association, Tedim (central) Baptist Association leh Southern Tedim Baptist Association kici hi. Tua teng ki gawm leuleu in Tedim Baptist Convention dingin vaihawm (form-up) uh hi. Hih thu 2001 ZBC Trienial Hnaring ah kigen hi. MBC pan Sia Enno leh Sia Authur Kolay, leh TBA makaite zong hong pai hi. ZBC triennial delegate in TBA te convention a suah theih nang MBC tungah puaktoh dingin lungkimna pia zo lo hi. Tua bangin dinmun a kisawn toto pen 2003 ZBC EC in ZBC kum 50 cin Jubilee tawh kituak in thukimpih na a pia ahi hi.

Mai lam ah TBC pen MBC in a kipsak nang ZBC in thukimpih ta hi. Hih pen MBC kalsuanzia lam man a tawn ahi hi. MBC in a pia taktak diam cih om lai hi. Ol no tak in piaziau lel thei ding a, zong pialo thei ek ding hi. Banghang hiam cih leh ei phut bang buaina Shan gam Kachin gamte ah om kawikawi a, MBC in aktui kitam ding bang a a dop kingkiang laitak" ahi hi. Tua ban ah MBC Kumnih cin khawmpi bek in Convention kipsakna a pia thei ding hi a, tu kum January kha sung Myitkyina khua ah tua khawmpi kibawl ahih manin tu zawh kum 2 sung sawt thei lai ding cih lamet om lailai hi.

1953 lai a TBA teng i kipawl khawm thei tam! !948 kum in a piang TBA pen 1953 kum in ZBC a piangsak suangthuthum lak ah khat ahi hi. Kum 50 sung ah convention 3 leh Associaiton 15 a kipha ta suak hi.

1. Tedim Baptist Convention

(1) Northern Tedim Baptist Association,

(2) Tedim (Central) Baptist Association

(3) Southern Tedim Baptist Association

2. Zomi Baptist Convention sung ah

(4) Zo Baptist Association piang hi.

(5) Siyin Region Baptist Association piang hi.

(6) Kalay Valley Baptist Association

(7) Tamu Kabaw valley Baptist Association

(😎 Kuki Baptist Association

(9) Tedim Association of Baptist

3. Zomi Baptist Convention of Myanmar sungah

(10) Tonzang Township Baptist Association

(11) Kalay Zomi Baptist Association

(12) Tamu Baptist Association

(13) Zanggam Baptist Association

(14) Gungal Baptist Association (?)

(15) Cikha Baptist Associatioan (?)

*(?)nih pen ka thu nung zak hi a, a min bulhdan khawng tel siang lo hiing.

Hih Convention thum sung a om Association 15 tengin Zomite khantoh nading leh phattuam na ding vaihawm khop theih nang kipawlna khat i vaihawm zo diam? A phamawh in ngaihsut ding thupi ta hi. A tawp nong nong simsak lungdam ing.

ZBC Tangthu ~By- Rev. Khoi Lam Thang (B.Th., B.A., M. Div., M.A., M.Th)


Sunday, January 28, 2024

50 FACTS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND YOU SHOULD KNOW


 50 FACTS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND YOU SHOULD KNOW.

1.       Your hubby is not perfect, accept him.

2.       Your hubby is the bone of your bone, don't reject him.

3.       Your hubby is a special gift from God, appreciate him.

4.       Your hubby is not your mate, respect him. 

5.       Your hubby made you a wife, don't make him regret his choice of you.

6.       Your hubby is your backbone, nourish him.

7.       Your hubby still loves his Mummy , take note.

8.       Your hubby is sexually active, don't deny him sex.

9.       Your hubby loves good food, give it to him.

10.   Your hubby need your encouragement, don't be judgemental.

11.   Your hubby is not your enemy, believe him.

12.   Your hubby is a friend, hug him.

13.   Your hubby love peaceful atmosphere, create it.

14.   Your hubby is a male gender, allow him some ego.

15.   Your hubby is your hero , celebrate him.

16.   Your hubby is your head, don't over burden him .

17.   Your hubby wants to satisfy you, help him to reach the goal.

18.   Your hubby is your king, adore him.

19.   Your hubby is not a machine, give him a break.

20.   Your hubby is trying his best , don’t compare him with his friends.

21.   Your hubby is not a dustbin, don't pour all your worries on him.

22.   Your hubby is not a rapist , sometimes seduce him.

23.   Your hubby is not ATM machine, sometimes he may not have money.

24.   Your hubby is all you have, keep him safe.

25.   Your hubby is your validation , be proud of him. 

26.   Your hubby is your greatest asset, don't devalue him.

27.   Your hubby is the husband of your youth, stick to him. 

28.   Your hubby needs your honor, never embarrass him in the public.

29.   Your hubby is not a politician, trust him.

30.   Your hubby is a distinct personality, never compare him to anyone.

31.   Your hubby is faithful , don’t be suspicious of him.

32.   Your hubby is not your boss , be free with him.

33.   Your hubby can make mistakes, don't capitalize on it.

34.   Your hubby sometimes need a space, don't feel he no longer loves you.

35.   Your hubby is a good man, don't abuse or take him for granted.

36.   Your hubby trust you, don't lie to him. 

37.   Your hubby wants freedom, don't cage him.

38.   Your hubby can be easily provoked, don't provoke him easily. 

39.   Your hubby may not meet all your needs, however, never report him to your family people.

40.   Your hubby is prone to temptation, guard him. 

41.   Your hubby is not a fool, do not under - rate him.

42.   Your hubby is your responsibility, make sure he looks presentable.

43.   Your hubby is your first baby, breastfeed him always.

44.   Your hubby is number one in your life, priorities him 

45.   Your hubby is your treasure, centre your heart on him. 

46.   Your hubby needs your help, your are his help meet.

47.   Your hubby need your full attention, drop your phone whenever you are together. 

48.   Your hubby is your lord, summit to his authority.

49.   Your hubby is your first pastor,  take counsel from him.

50.   You will account to God about your husband , how you handle him and how you supported him. God bless you all humble and supportive wives !


John Liney 

MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND IT'S ALSO A GIVE AND TAKE


 MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND IT'S ALSO A GIVE AND TAKE

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband

2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband

3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances

4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting

5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend

6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood

7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband

8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him

9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time

11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids

12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments

13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband

14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband

16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty

17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her

18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together

Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.

Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women


A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN HOME WELL 


REMAIN BLESSED, GOD BLESS YOU

HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING


 WHAT YOU SHOULD DO DURING A MISUNDERSTANDING TO AVOID IT FROM GETTING OUT OF HAND.


Misunderstanding is something you can never do without in a relationship/marriage, misunderstandings would come to either make your relationship weaker or stronger, you can make your relationship strive no matter the misunderstanding that comes your way if you know how to handle them when they come.


Most people who do not know how to handle misunderstandings in their relationship/marriages have become victims of divorce and heart breaks. If you can master how to handle misunderstandings when they come, be rest assured that you're going to enjoy a beautiful relationship.


HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING


📌LISTEN:  The first thing to do during a misunderstanding is not shouting back at your spouse, the first thing to do is to listen to what they are saying and try to understand where they are coming from, even when they are screaming on top of their voices, relax, be calm and listen.


📌DON'T RETALIATE: It is often said that two wrongs cannot make a right, so when they are shouting at you don't retaliate, just keep your cool. This will give you time to study your partner's emotions and also hear them clearly. 


📌DON'T USE HARSH WORDS: During a misunderstanding and you are trying to explain what happened be mindful of your words and don't say anything that would make the situation worse. Take time to explain with a language that's soft and low. 


📌SHUT THEM UP WITH LOVE: There are certain things you will do to your spouse that would keep them shut immediately, except if your spouse does not love you but if your spouse do love you, they will keep shut, call them pet names, tell them they don't look good when they are angry, hug them and tell them you love them, stare into their eyes and say they have beautiful eyes or beautiful lips, just say something sweet to them.


📌APOLOGIZE IF YOU'RE THE ONE AT FAULT: If you're at fault and you are sure you are, apologize and move on, holding onto issues without apologizing is not right. It will anoly cause a bigger rift between you and your partner. Accept your mistake, apologize and never get to doing your partner wrong again. Mean it when you say it. 


To some, mostly ego overtakes them and fails to handle a misunderstanding. Making room for silence to eat the relationship away. Try things differently this year and see the outcome.


FINDING A HUSBAND IS HARD


 FINDING A HUSBAND IS HARD.

1. You find a handsome one, the brain is empty.

2. You find a brilliant one. He looks too serious.

3. You find a rich one, he is disrespectful.

4. You find a hard-working one, he never has time for you.

5. You find a serious one, his EX keeps calling.

6. You find a humble one, he is broke.

7. You find a responsible one, he is not romantic.

8. You find an educated one, he feels he is always right.

9. You find an illiterate one, he always gets angry whenever you correct him.

10. You find a smart one, he lies every time.


AVOID THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIPS


 AVOID THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIPS

#Advise

1. You should avoid a relationship that is based on sex alone.

It has no future. If all you do is to sleep with each other

instead of discussing things that will benefit your life then that

relationship is a waste of time and destiny.

2. Avoid any relationship that has no direction, purpose or aim.

3. Avoid any relationship that doesn't add any positive impact

on your life.

4. Run away from any relationship that gives you more sorrows

than joy.

5. Run away from any relationship that makes you cry or gives

you more tears and cry than laughter.

6. Do not stay in a relationship where you love someone but

the person makes you unhappy many times.

7. When you see signs that a relationship can't work, there is

no need remaining into it. Flee from it. Don't keep managing.

8. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to

love your partner.

9. Avoid any relationship where you are caged or restricted

from your rights. No relationship should restrict you from your

rights.

10. Avoid any relationship that will keep you far away from

God.